Get Your FREE HusbandMotivator App

Learn how to speak your husband’s
language to have a better relationship.

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There’s the problem

Have you ever had to ask your husband ten times to take out the trash and he still didn’t do it, because, in his opinion, it wasn’t urgent?

Or do you sometimes feel that your husband has an invisible “Ignore” button when you ask him to do something?

For millions of years…

For millions of years women have dreamed of changing their partner’s behavior.

And you have probably already figured out that repeating the same thing over and over, either using your soft “sweetie pie” voice or your “drill sergeant” voice, doesn’t usually get you what you want.

Or perhaps you tried bribing him with the “nice” stuff, like cooking his favorite food (or sex! :-)). Well, this may work in the short, but not over the long term.

That’s why we created this app!

The solution lies in really understanding what motivates your husband to take action.

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The HusbandMotivator Benefits

Problem Solving

Problem Solving

Helps you improve your relationship and solve problems easier with your man
Explains the “how

Explains the “how”

Explains how he thinks, gets motivated and makes decisions in everyday life situations– from small tasks, such as doing the lawn, to serious topics such as taking care of his health and finances.

4 Step Motivating Method

Teaches you the 4 Step Motivating Method with Words That Change Minds customized to your hubby
Motivation Patterns

Motivation Patterns

Identifies his subconscious Motivation Patterns and how they shift in different Contexts, so you both communicate better, have a healthier relationship, and more harmony in your couple and family as a whole.

The HusbandMotivator App is based on over 30 years of research

The HusbandMotivator App is based on over 30 years of research and experience in human relationships and motivation, using the latest tools to identify the psychological patterns that move your husband to take action.

The HusbandMotivator App was created by Shelle Rose Charvet –
bestselling author and the international expert on Influencing Language.

Shelle Rose Charvet

is the founder of The Institute for Influence. She is a bestselling author and the international expert on Influencing Language, researching and teaching for over 30 years.

Her first book, Words That Change Minds, is an international bestseller, available in 15 languages, and a Forbes best management book.

Organizations in over 30 countries ask Shelle to help them increase their impact and influence.


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As a top international speaker,
Shelle has been inducted to the Canadian Speaking Hall of Fame,
and is recognized as a Global Speaking Fellow by the Global Speakers Federation.
She has earned the Certified Speaking Professional and Certified Virtual Presenter designations.